also, completely unrelated, caught the last 45 minutes of "sleep with me" from 1994. eric stoltz starred in it (been catching a lot of his 'odd' movies lately. the passion of ayn rand being one of them...), but it had friggin craig sheffer (the program, river runs through it, etc... but really was well known as the snotty rich kid in the some kind of wonderful, also with eric stoltz. quentin tarantino was in it - the sleep with me movie. parker posey too (i love anything she's been in from house of yes to party girl... i even liked her role in you've got mail for goodness sake. don't know why i like her, but i do... also, there was another movie in 1995 that eric stoltz was in that is one of my all time favorites, but i can't find it anywhere, but it was called kicking and screaming - not the will ferrell soccer movie, but a cool movie with eric stoltz, parker posey, olivia d'abo, josh hamilton, etc... one of those twenty something movies). some nights i miss being able to go to the afterthought. you guys would have liked that place. despite my lack of capitalization and the appearance of rambling, this is a sober writing... just an odd night with old memories that came a callin'. odd thing, memory... what's the counting crows line? "if dreams are like movies, then memories are films about ghosts" that's one of my all time favorite lines...